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2024-03-16 Don't believe someone's phrase, "I will never abandon you. [長年日記]

Many articles begin with the headline, 'Never Abandon anyone.'

That would be admirable -- if it is possible.

In my case, on the contrary, I can assure you that

"I'll abandon anyone."

It is clear from my experience.

I know I have abandoned my studies, work, friends, and even my parents.

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It is impossible to say, "Never abandon anyone" in the first place.

The above is easy to prove.

Because I cannot provide resources to others beyond what I have.

It is a simple conservation of energy law.

The only exception would be if I self-destruct (or die) in the process of continuing to 'never abandon'.

The above case would be a good time to say we have completed "Never Abandon Anyone."

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I know that "Never abandon" is a "statement of determination" or a "strong adjective.

So, I know that the way I said it above is unfair and malicious.

But I still can't say 'never abandon anyone ' so quickly.

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By the way, there is some good in "abandon anyone absolutely.".

When someone doesn't help me, that is,

Calling them a liar,

Feeling betrayed,

Being pessimistic against miserable

"This is because such feelings can pack them quickly and in a small way."

If I prepare to be "absolutely abandoned" again,

What should I take to "not let them abandon me so quickly?

I can always prepare to keep thinking about the above.

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In conclusion for today,

(1) Don't believe someone's phrase, "I will never abandon you.

And,

(2) I will try to 'never let someone abandon me.'

are important.