I had lived in harsh reality since I was graduated from high school, because 'team sports = pain' and 'collective action = pain' are imprinted on me.

As for me, frankly speaking, the 'sports day' and 'school trip' were torture.

On school trips, people who stayed up all night making noise were - to put it mildly - considered "idiots".

"Is is more fun to get good sleep, walk around with light steps, read the board explaining historic story, see the historic architecture, and follow the historical site?"

There were an overwhelming minority of children at the time. I mean there were no child like that

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By the way, when I talk to my daughters, I hear their friends suffer from mental disorder, and enforce to leave of absence or office.

In many cases, they are tired of their company relationships.

However, it is a rare and lucky case to get alone with others.

And I think, really, that...

"Why do you all seem to be able to 'get along with others'?"

When I was a college student, I had already made a self-analysis that I was not a good team player.

So I thought that my work style would be better "stand-alone" rather than "teamwork".

As a result, I made me a "research engineer".

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I think that many people believe that their communication ability is higher.

Or they might think that once they start working, it is going well.

However, clearly speaking, it cannot be helped about this issue.