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2019-09-20 "I will kill you" [長年日記]

The words of "Itai(painful)", "Kimoi(disgusting) and "bitch(son of a bitch)" are used for the youth conversation.

I'm still not used to these words, and to be honest, I'm surprised to hear these words.

In particular, the word "bitch" is, which is considered from the etymology (please check it)

"Whether I can use it once in my life"

Even if I use the word for a woman,

"I can't complain even if her partner or lover kills me."

It's such a destructive word for me.

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Words are always changing, and I have to get used to the words with changing the times. I know that.

However, even if I know it, I may not understand it with my heart.

So if I meet a person who uses the word "Kimoi" or "bitch",

I immediately break the friendship at the moment, and,

I am going to be the lowest rating with recalling the possible arbitrary reasons.

I know that this is an unfair treatment, but "my heart" cannot put up with it.

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I think I have to understand the background that there is communication that cannot convey their intentions accurately without using the word "bitch".

On the other hand, there is a youth who should put up with his/her boss who has been making "painful" gambling unbearably.

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So what I want to recommend is the concept of

"Generation Bilingual"

This idea is based on the fact that each generation has a language (and its cultural and generational background) that only works for that generation.

Then, the words on the spot are "switched" according to the spot.

Which side you use may be a problem. I think that this should be adjusted to those who have "majority" or "power".

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In the first place, why do we have to speak something between different generations ?

In many cases, seniors want to talk to young people, but young people feel annoyed to talk to seniors from the bottom of their heart.

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When I was in my twenties, I joined an overseas academic conference, and was working hard at the secretariat. In fact I could sleep only 2-3 hours everyday.

Under such circumstances, a great company person (director level) called me to my room.

When I was told that the reason was "I want to talk to young people",

"I will kill you"

I didn't think it at all.

Because I'm just an office worker.