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2019-08-23 Talking to a child about "I was a bully performer" is a terrible and painful thing. [長年日記]

(Continuation from yesterday)

"I was bullying in this way when I was a child.”

Such an actual experience of adults should be more convincing than arranging a bunch of bullying damages and their remedies.

This is because those who are bullying are not aware that they are the bullyers at all.

But such a story does not come out.

It will not come out from now on.

Talking to a child about "I was a bully performer" is a terrible and painful thing.

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When I was in the fourth grade of elementary school, I was giving a little to the girl in the next seat with a fun and playful feeling.

At that time, when I was called by my homeroom teacher and heard that I was receiving a complaint from a girl, I was naturally surprised. More than that, I noticed

"I am a perpetrator"

"I do not realize that I am a "perpetrator""

At this time, the homeroom teacher seemed to have understood well that I was a child who did not recognize bullying. I realized that the teacher took care of me.

If there was no indication from this teacher, I didn't notice

"My daily life makes me a "perpetrator of bullying"

I am afraid that I was too late to realize the fact, or at worst, I have never noticed that.

I haven't been very grateful to "teachers" (in most cases teachers were enemies for me), I am truly grateful for this.

(To be continued)