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2017-05-14 "If my child becomes my subordinate in my office, what do I do ?" [長年日記]

(Continuation from yesterday)

You, who is a nonworking dependents, never forget the next.

Your mother and father, who are providers for you, are doing a simulation in their mind.

"If my child becomes my subordinate in my office, what do I do ?"

She or he

doesn't do anything by my order,

doesn't think out how to study by themselves,

cannot say their opinions logically,

cannot propose a new method,

cannot cooperate and work well to others in a team,

"Well, I don't need her/him"

After thinking that, your mother and father will abandon the subordinate.

Don't forget that your mother and father will discard the subordinate for your caring.

That means,

It is not for you, that your mother and father continue saying "Study" to you.

It is for your mother and father themselves, that you will be thrown away from society.

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However, your life is yours, of course.

You have a free and a right "to be truncated by society at my own risk".

There is no problem, because it is yours.

I think you can have a chance to conflict against society.

In addition, Human is a right of not only "to be happy" but also "to be unhappy".

On the other hand, I believe that you don't have a freedom to frighten your parents.

Your parents are parties who are providing free environment to live your.

Even if you were not born with your own will, I think that it lacks a considerable balance of interests, to give "suffering" to parents who guarantee your survival.

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This story will result in my opinion as I have said before.

"You don't have to study, but pretend to study"

If everyone can become happy, do not you think it is a very cheap cost?

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Also, this "pretending studying" in itself, will be reckoned.

A famous animation character says that "pretending can eventually turn into your reality."

If "the pretending becomes a start switch for studying", it is also good too.