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2015-10-19 But it was a unspeakable major incident for me, because I thought "he was an eternal friend in my life based on the same values". [長年日記]

(Continuation from yesterday)

When I was a teenager, I was surprised that our views became different between my friend and me after graduation in three months.

Of course, I think that it was a timid difference in outlook with high-sight.

But it was a unspeakable major incident for me, because I thought "he was an eternal friend in my life based on the same values".

The time of just three months is enough for teenagers to change their principle and opinions. For example from ideology of far-left activist to far-right, or from communism to Islamic extremism.

Of course, this change will happen in ourselves at any time. But they cannot understand that all of us become changing. So they get angry or sorry for the distance with shifting the responsibility.

According to the difference about their principles and opinions, the teenagers cannot treat their friends with tolerance.

"The number of their friends becomes almost zero in three years after graduation."

This is obvious "laws of nature".

This doesn't mean that "being a loneliness", but continues changing their friend based on the phase of their life.

Moreover I think

"It should be so"

(To be continued)