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2015-09-01 So nobody should scolds me. [長年日記]

Previously, I heard the story from a junior co-worker that "being abused motivated him".

I felt that this was the first contact to an alien.

I was surprised that "He is a real human being in the world".

In my case, I cannot accept any abuse.

There are two patterns that I can react against an abuse.

"getting down" or "resenting".

I could learn a lot from my faults, but I could not learn anything from scolding me.

So nobody should scolds me.

If you scolds me, my operating capability is going down dynamically.

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Some people might be fed up with saying "this is a opinions of almost 50 years old man isn't it?".

Unfortunately my mind has stopped since I was a teenager.

Even when I got a job, got married, had children, there have been no progress for me.

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In opposition, I can work well even if I am praised.

Sometimes I can get an amazing new record of my operation capability.

So I want you to praise me, and I can generalise it easily.

So to speak, I believe that

"Everybody in the world must want to praise them."

(To be continued)