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2015-04-09 "they don't want to hear another talk, but they want to make another hear their talk." [長年日記]

For a long time, I have thought that why people aim to success.

There are several types of success in the world.

In many cases, the successes are appeared as a comparable key index, for example, career, money and lover of heterosexual and homogeneous.

But I cannot think that many people who aim to success, make their efforts for these key index only.

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Yesterday, I came to me in a flash that

"they don't want to hear another talk, but they want to make another hear their talk."

I thought that they have a desire including the contradiction.

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In fact, it is very hard for me to have a lecture from another.

Because I don't hope that.

At the time, I make me accept that the person may have something that I don't know, and, that might be useful for me.

For example, the person might have something meaningful, my boss, world-wide researcher, or famous writer.

I believe the possibility "I might get something from this person" and put up with the lecture.

(To be continued)