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2020-09-11 But we can't turn a blind eye to it - we live in a world of relative evaluation. [長年日記]

(Continuation from yesterday)

Based on my considerations above,

It seems like the same thing as "I hate my parents for not manufacturing me as the person I want to be.

However, if I look online, I have not found many cases of people shifting the blame of "I hate myself" to their parents.

Well, that's true.

In that case, you can say "I hate my parents" and that will be enough.

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The logic behind "I hate myself", to be represented by an inequality.

"My ideal self" - "Self-identified self" > "My acceptable threshold."

However, this inequality can be described as "high self-goals," which is not generally a bad thing.

However, this "self-goal" is often created by "comparison" with others.

In short, it's the result of a "relative assessment".

Many people talk about "relative evaluation" like it's a bad thing.

But we can't turn a blind eye to it - we live in a world of relative evaluation.

Anyone who says that's "never mind" is, to put it bluntly, 'an idiot who can't recognize the real world'.

In my experience, a page on a website that is littered with a large amount of 'kind words' that say 'You' are worthy of your own alone" has been based on, I think

"Pink Background"

"The petals were dancing"

"In the pages, the words "spiritual" and "God" are apparent"

I don't like people who abuse these two words.

(To be continued)