2013|10|11|12|
2014|01|02|03|04|05|06|07|08|09|10|11|12|
2015|01|02|03|04|05|06|07|08|09|10|11|12|
2016|01|02|03|04|05|06|07|08|09|10|11|12|
2017|01|02|03|04|05|06|07|08|09|10|11|12|
2018|01|02|03|04|05|06|07|08|09|10|11|12|
2019|01|02|03|04|05|06|07|08|09|10|11|12|
2020|01|02|03|04|05|06|07|08|09|10|11|12|
2021|01|02|03|04|05|06|07|08|09|10|11|12|
2022|01|02|03|04|05|06|07|08|09|10|11|12|
2023|01|02|03|04|05|06|07|08|09|10|11|12|
2024|01|02|03|04|05|

2017-10-21 "Evaluation of others" - "Self-recognition" = "Unpleasant of myself" [長年日記]

(Continuation from yesterday)

However, even if I am asked whether it is unfortunate that "no other who tells the evaluation about myself". I don't think it is always bad.

Because, in most case, the following equation is established

"Evaluation of others" - "Self-recognition" = "Unpleasant of myself"

So, I will not go asking others of "opinions about myself".

They do make me unpleasant absolutely.

Only when it is "really absolutely necessary", I am going to ask for "opinion from others". However, it is a really rare case.

"Gratefully I can accept criticisms against me"

I am afraid that such a people is suffering from heart, or just crazy.

Well, I have known well that my behaviors like the above are causes of "rough expression".

-----

Whenever I decided "this person gives me disadvantage", I will state the evaluation of them,

In a world unrelated to me, what they think and how they act, whether they likes me or dislikes me,

Indeed, I'm not interested in them seriously at all.

I mean, I can not really understand why they are interested in other so much.

(To be continued)